Cosplay is very important to me, as one of my major hobbies, I can't deny its lure and appeal.
Aswim in the massive sea of nerd fandom, I'm occasionally left with an occasional bitter taste in my mouth, which mostly comes from cosplayers themselves.
In February, I started to work with two very open, very hard working people to form a group called "Triple C Productions".
The beauty of these two men, Jason and Bently is their love of all "Fandoms" and general admiration of geek culture.
Both are extremely honest, and hard working and both want to create the best "art" possible.
As the leader of a local Cosplay group, I model my behavior on two things--successful cosplayers (Whom I studied and emulated to get into the field) and a self-styled mantra, to strive for "Truth in Cosplay."
One of my colleagues in the academic word recently laughed at my mantra, which I labeled a movement, but she quickly responded with the phrase, "There is no truth in cosplay."
Her statement implies that since we "dress up," we are at our very core, perpetrating illusion.
As a cosplayer, I am well aware of this fact, but as a serious cosplayer,I maintain to create the most truthful and consistant illusion on a constant basis.
When I dress as the Doctor, I stay in character to the best of my ability I also am constantly on the lookout for more accurate pieces, for also pieces that might not be cannon, but speak a fundimental truth about Cosplay and my character. One such piece is my watch chain. My watch chain isn't fourth doctor cannon, but it is "truthful" to the character.
As for my acting cosplay, I embody the "Becky Young" philosophy. I embody that character. If you watch "Heroes of Cosplay" you will see what I mean, I am the doctor when I Cosplay the Doctor--I particularly love doing this at Scarborough Faire, among other costumed folks and especially when children are around.
Depending on the location, I stay in costume and character, no matter how hot, even if I'm walking around Scarby in abominable heat.
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| Fig 1. The Fourth Doctor lives and breathes. |
That is the first "truth" I subscribe to--my second truth is the undeniable "honesty" that Cosplay is an art form.
Cosplay lives and breathes on the dedication of the individual to a series of codes, authenticity, hardwork and pride.
In the last few years, the"pride" of many cosplayers has been downgraded by other Cosplayers on these terms--if you have spent hours working on your costume, and someone else spent 10 minutes, you have no right to feel any different, than the guy who dressed in his closet for 10 minutes--in fact according to some cosplayers you are downright wrong and have an ugly soul to feel special for your hard work.
I'm sure if you asked several cosplayers if this was true, they'd deny it, but what manifest itself in several cosplayers is a false humility that publicly makes no big deal of hard work and privately fills their mouths with derogatory statements.
You might notice that the anger among many coplayers has little to do with the hard work, it has to do with a personal jealousy that rears its ugly head over many small issues. Those issues are basic. A lot of Cosplayers want to "feel good" about the fandom, so they pretend that substandard work is acceptable. They stand proudly against a plethora of issues and pretend that having an ego or too much pride is wrong, and hurtful--they do this because they hope nobody will get hurt, but the newsflash is that human beings experience a wide range of emotions when they create--its called art. Look it up.
Art requires pride, ego, and ambition--things some cosplayers would like you to forget.
Every Cosplayer who puts on a costume, lifts their ego high, feels good, becomes that character, and that my friends, requires ego and is not wrong.
It requires a level of egotism that is not meant to be harmful, but at the same time, should exist, because if you aren't proud enough to put on the costume, you shouldn't put the costume on.
This is why I watch "Heroes of Cosplay." It's an honest show, in this regard--every one of these women and men on this show to design, built and put on a costume, requires a level of ego, and a level of pride. That is why I watch the show.
Now, what do the "Haters" of "Heroe"s say say? The Cosplayers who don't like the show, dislike it for these reasons.
The show itself promotes truths that few people like: The show has 4 to 5 women and one male.
The females are perfectionists,(So is the male) and they also have moments of less than perfect behavior. Even Yaya Han has moments of breakdown (See the Jessica Rabbit costume and photoshoot), and Cosplayers around the world have these same moments--much as they want to deny them.
Faux cosplayers, untruthful cosplayers, cowardly cosplayers pretend these moments of weakness don't happen. They manufacture false humility and pretend their perfection lies in this humility.
I need to go over some terms:
Drama--This term refers to unnecessary agitation or stryfe as defined primarily by the first person to call it so. There's no answer to a call of drama, it is merely a straight-forward, "I get my way by calling an issue first, and then, I get to act belligerent if I am questioned, by anyone in anyway.
I get to proclaim my disapproval for something, even if i don't know what it is, and then I get to gossip constantly about how much drama there is even when I don't see it."
Let me give you an example: I run a cosplay group, and we've had disagreements. My officers and I have had heated discussions over many things, including how much responsibility should be placed on our members.
We have in the past discussed taking dues from members, which we've argued over. A few days later, on our boards a member or two posted saying there was so much "Drama" that they doubted we were a ship shape group. 1. This person had no knowledge of what we argued about, unless one of my officers told them. 2. Second, what business of it is even remotely in this person's arena." What the word Drama boils down to is the ability for a person to act self-righteous over nothing.
This so called word was used specifically on one occasion.specifically. I hadn't heard from,an officer in months, and asked said officer to talk to me regularly.
I expressed concern that said officer do more of their job (Understand this was in private.) and that i was open to suggestions--I also mentioned that if real life was getting in the way, then "said officer" could step down.
"Said officer's" response, "This is drama..." and said officer quit, not just the job but the whole group. "Said office"r then went about the internet flouncing, saying my group was full of "drama"
Now, I ask you, who is the Drama queen?
To put it bluntly, The word Drama is a crutch, and an excuse to act like a whiny baby. Its a sad little way of telling people to shut up. And if you throw the word drama, for any reason, you win. There's no defense, its a basic way of saying, "I'm offended. I'm also lazy, and I win." The other person gets no defense--none. The person who called Drama gets to step away "Scott Free" and the world pats them on the back and tells them it wasn't their fault, whatever it is.
Bullying--Cosplayers would like you to believe that they walk around like Street Angels, watching for others and other Cosplayers who belittle Cosplayers for their sewing skills or their weight or their body types, but that is not the truth.
Bullying is a generic term that used to be personified in cruel and distasteful acts perpetrated on weaker children by stronger, more abnormal kids. Bullying used to be perpetrated on overweight kids by acts of harassment, or hazing or violence. In the year 2000, bullying became synonymous with one thing, ouright foul behavior to people who had a different sexual persuasion than heterosexual. Granted this is bullying, but the truth is, only when it became synonymous to sexual preference did it become ugly. It was always ugly. So what do Cosplayers see it as? Cosplayers see it as judgment. Cosplayers are immediately on guard for any type of insensitivity to any type of cosplay, or any cosplay construction.
To Judge someone's costume in anyway, is bullying. To have an argument (*See drama) is bullying. To question someone about their job is bullying. These things are synonymous, often times Cosplayers quit groups and drop the "Trifecta" before they quit: I quit because they were elitist and too much drama which then equals (You guessed it) they were bullies.
Inclusiveness--Here's a great buzzword too. Inclusiveness. The Cosplay community is "inclusive." The Cosplay Community is so inclusive, that doesn't require a costume. Cosplay groups all over the country face this problem everyday. The basic requirements of every group is the same. one costume, and attendance of one event. However, dishonest Cosplayers will say to my face, without batting an eyelid, that demanding they have a costume is not inclusive... They literally believe in inclusivity for any reason, without any set of standards--in a field that requires craftsmanship, and dedication, anyone who wants in can get in. No dedication required--no craftsmanship. To argue with said notions makes you an "elitist."
Elitism--This word is the ultimate insult, you can throw at any Cosplayer. It is the defining line, because it embodies all the definitions from above. Many Cosplayers lay in bed at night having nightmares about being called this, or fearing that when the time comes they will be unable to fire off this insult first before someone can beat them to the punch. To Cosplayer the word Elitism smacks of being in Nazi Germany, where Elitist Coplayers are like the SS and their mission is to take poor cosplayers away and shove them on trains to concentration camps.
Most Cosplayers live in dream worlds where everyone is able to create and fabricate, and nobody feels bad. Some Cosplayers predispose that everyone has the right to cosplay and only mean "elitist" bullies keep them down and hurt them, and they (bullies) enjoy oppression and hurting people.
Once again what springs from this is there can be no dissension.
Everyone can cosplay and everyone should, even if they don't have the money (To which you hardly ever see other Cosplayers shelling out money for other people's cosplays), or the skill (Because skill has nothing to do with it?) or the desire (Everyone wants to cosplay they just don't know it.yet).
To call someone an "elitist" is to label them a bully and a bigot. It is merely a way of telling them to shut up. No evidence is needed--no defense can be given. It merely is the final insult and a stigma that labels you among other cosplayers.
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| Fig 2. Chloe Dykstra in 11th Doctor Cosplay. |
In an episode of Heroes of Cosplay, Chloe Dykstra, who is apparently new to Cosplay says to the other members, "I think everyone should be able to play whatever they want, whenever they want." (Heroes) Such bold sentimentis admirable, but is also what we call a generic feel good line. It predisposes that everyone can dress, and everyone wants to cosplay.
Now, as a realist, when a guy comes up to me and says, I like David Tennant , I want to do him....I am the first to say, "Okay, lets do this..." I don't hesitate to let him make his Tennant costume. I do not, but at the same time is a man comes to me and says, "I want to be Donna Noble." then I am forced to say the same thing, "Go For it..." I have never told a single cosplayer they couldn't play what they wanted, but I have also been straightfoward with them, it requires work, and I also personally believe in a personal truth: "Play to your strengths."
Facially, I've tried to play many doctors. The ones that I look like are my best Cosplays. I also live and work in reality, that not a day has passed online or offline when someone hasn't told me, that this might not be your best cosplay--I have never had a single cosplayer jump to my defense--ever.
Where are the guardians of feel good when they are supposed to be there to protect me.
I heard daily from people when a girl is insulted and called "too Fat" to play Amy Pond, and righteous indignation rises to an all time high, but nothing is done.
An Ego is stroked. Soft words are used, but the truth is never examined--this self same apathy infects the world. A person who can't do their job is left in their job. A person is told its not their fault when they clearly did omething that cost a company money. Students who refuse to read in college, and then turn in substandard work are then ego stroked and pushed onward and told its okay, well it isn't...At one point will they stand up and demand the same scholarships. What keeps cosplayers from standing in the audience of costume shows and saying its all the same--newsflash it isn't.
Real Cosplayers know this. Real Cosplayers know how hard they work on things. Real Coplayers are "elite," by the fact they win competitions, and inspire other cosplayers to bring their "A game."
In the aforementioned Episode, when Chloe Dykstra mentioned her belief, several of the more professional cosplayers went silent. This was a very telling and truthful moment, and then it was Riddle (Riki LaCotey) who said, "What good does it do if a rather large peron tried to cosplay...etc"
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| Fig 2. Riddle (AKA Riki LaCotey) |
I don't remember the actual analogy, but the gist of the statement was as follows:
Not everyone cosplays. Not everyone should Cosplay.
I remember this episode like it was yesterday, because two of my closest friends were next to me, and we all were in agreement, as much as we liked the idea of nobody being forced to cosplay what they didn't want to or liked the idea that anyone could cosplay, we knew that Chloe's statement was a fundamental illusion that Cosplayers frequently entertain.
In the episode, YaYa Han changes the subject fairly quickly by openly condemning elitisim.
She speaks to the open air, but the truth of the episode was that Monica Lee chose not to do a group Cosplay with another member of the heroes (Becky Young).
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| Fig. 3 Monica Lee |
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| Fig. 4 Becky Young |
I'm fairly certain many cosplayers watching were horrified, but I wasn't.
Where Monica Lee erred was in simply not telling Becky Young that she was not intereted.
Monica made some crack about Becky's crafsstmanship. Make no mistake--that was wrong--it was an opinion, but it was wrong.
And Yet, Monica Lee was painted as an elitist. According to the all inclusive world of Cosplay, Monica Lee should simply agree to something she doesn't want to do, in order so that every body feels good.
That Monica didn't want to group cosplay with Becky Young is a truth that the "inclusive coplayers"would flat out see as not an option or a choice. Monica should make every person feel good, always--and forever.
Bull!
Monica has a right to her opinion. It's Monica's right as a free citizen in a free country.
It's her right as a cosplayer, but the whole episode is surely and clearly used probably by other cosplayers a a warning and threat to other Cosplayers--to them monica has an ugly soul.
The episode, in their opinion, highlights the "evil" of the show and the "evils " of elitism. The truth is, this is a truthful episode.
Cosplayers around the world pretend to be inclusive and compassionate, but the truth is Cosplayers struggle, and make judgements, and hard decisions when it come to their "art," and they could give a rat's ass whether people feel good-- this is what Cosplayers do daily, and it isn't a sin, nor "elitism" it's the way it is.
You don't have to work with someone if you don't want to, and you don't have to pretend you love their costume if you don't.
Some Cosplayers need to stop dancing around in "Everything is okay" land and focus on one thing, making the best art they can. They also need to stop calling people Elitist for no reason.
To call someone an elitist, is merely to tell a person to shut up and deny real cosplayers the credit they deserve is by all means a fiction and a lie, and an excuse so everyone feels good.
If you're not into Cosplay to create great art and celebrate the fandom with respect and admiration, the sincerest form of flattery, and to feel slightly good about yourself, then Cosplay isn't for you--not really.
That's the full truth and its the truth that many, many cosplayers need to recognize, and respect. And a few need to be slapped in the face with that cold, hard truth.
Love your fandom. Respect your fandom.
James from Arlington near Six Flags 4/18/2014